Archive for October, 2008

Why is Royale Family Funny

Friday, October 31st, 2008

A recent BBC programme asked several celebrities why they liked so much the hit comedy “The Royal Family”. These are some of the reasons why it is such a popular programme.

Firstly we can identify with the characters. Everybody knows a Darren, a Lazy Father who complains about wasting electricity. Even if not wholly we can also see part of ourselves in the characters. It is like a mirror comedy. It is funny because it is an exaggerated sense of reality but at the same time very close to the actual experience.

Because of the way it is filmed there seems to be nothing artificial, it is like watching a real family. There is no attempt to develop gags or create jokes. It is just funny seeing real life. The Royale Family is quite comfortable with periods of silence; this is quite rare in a tv programme. This adds to the realism of the programme making it appear more realistic when elements of genuine comedy appear.

Every character has their particular flaw and we can laugh as they act exactly as we expect. A great example is Denise, perhaps the laziest mother she is so often criticising others, especially her younger brother for being lazy. It seems ironic that she is criticising others. Here we are perhaps laughing at her.

Despite the endless backbiting and arguments there is a sense that this is a functioning family with real love. This displays itself at certain times and in particular episodes. Even Jim who at times appears to hate Nanna offers most generous and sincere words when she passes away.

The programme deals with criminality in a way that is rarely seen on TV. There is a casual acceptance of soft crime. For example there is an episode where Darren is asked how many times he has been to a young offenders institute.

“3 times.”
“and has this taught you anything Darren?”

“Yeah”

“And whats that Darren?”
“Don’t get caught” (general laughter)

One of the strongest characters is Jim Royle most of the time he is quite grumpy. He can get very worked up about seemingly insignificant things. He is also the archetypal tight northener.

Denise (on Jim’s birthday cake) – “Come on Dad! Blow it out!”

Jim – “I will buggery! There’s five minutes left in that – save on the lecky.”

Jim gets so worked up it is very funny. But his character is not just about being miserable and grumpy with numerous bad habits. Quite often we see him scratching in places a real member of the Royal Family would never do in public.. Occasionally we see glimpses of his comedy talent and musical capacities. He can also display touches of genuine emotion, this is particularly touching because it appears so out of character.

Life in the Royal Family often revolves around the TV; we see a marvellous episode where the family get really excited about an edition of Antiques Roadshow. This seems unexpected because it is perhaps not a programme you would expect the Royle family to view. Another episode I like is when Anthony’s girlfriend comes to visit and tries to explain she’s a vegetarian. “O, so its ok to eat chicken then?” – no I don’t eat chicken. What about a bit of tuna? – no its ok thanks

Richard is an economics teacher in Oxford and is a meditation student of Sri Chinmoy Richard has collected many funny quotes and has a blog about the best funny videos.

Controlling Family Chaos – Time Management for the Family

Saturday, October 18th, 2008

Balancing a family’s varying schedules can be near impossible. Soccer, hockey, dance, skating, Brownies, Scouts, skiing, swimming, school activities, homework, not to mention play and sleep time, fill our children’s lives. Now add in the parental activities, including work, fitness, volunteering, and home maintenance

Family Day is September 25 – Have Dinner With Your Kids!

Monday, October 13th, 2008

Remember the good ole’ days when families sat down at the table and ate dinner together? With this new millennium lives have gotten so busy and frantic, that sitting down together as a family at least several times per week is a luxury. The National Center on Addictions and Substance Abuse (CASA) has declared the fourth Monday of September as Family Day, a day to eat dinner with your kids!

Research finds that the more kids eat dinner with their families the less likely they are to smoke, drink or use drugs. Children tend to be healthier, have positive social skills and perform better in school. Having dinner together as a family provides time to communicate with each, find out what kids did that day in school, and discuss family issues important to everyone.

This year, mark your calendar and plan Family Day on September 25 with your children. Turn off the television, put on the answering machine, and plan a nutritious meal that everyone can participate in making. During dinner, ask children to describe their day at school, what they did after school, and if they have any special activities are coming up. After dinner, play a board game to help kids practice reading and math skills or go outside for a little physical fitness.

Here are some tips to make Family Day a habit that is practiced all year long:

  • Include kids in planning a menu for family dinners (lunch or breakfast too)
  • Include kids in preparing, serving and cleaning up the meal
  • Turn off the television (or anything with a screen) during the meal
  • Turn on the answering machine for the phone during the meal
  • Let everyone have a turn talking about his or her day and activities
  • Plan a game night instead of watching television
  • After dinner, take a walk or ride bikes as a family outing

Having family dinner with your children on a regular basis is a special tradition that kids will always remember!

As a mother, grandmother, and child development professional, Nancy Johnson, shares over 20 years experience working with children and planning activities on her website, Creative-Child-Activity-Notebook.com. Check it out for more school age child activity ideas including party, outdoor, holiday, nature, and child learning activity ideas.

Screenwriter and Novelist Marguerite Ashton Receives Rave Reviews for Mafia Novel

Sunday, October 5th, 2008

When asked what gave her the idea for the story, she replied, “I am a big movie fanatic of all genres, but if you were to ask my favorites, it would be mafia and horror. With Taylini, I decided to add a twist that is not included in your usual “mafia stories.”

See below for a brief synopsis and a sampling of reviews of Ms. Ashton’s book:

Nora Taylini struggles to keep her family together, while her husband fights with his rival Dons. Knowing that he was once best friends with Don Meroni and Don Lamano, Nora feels pressured to maintain her dignity and not exact revenge in the “Old Mafia Fashion.” By focusing her attention on their children and stratesizing ways to keep the Taylini dynasty alive, she throws the family into a tail spin.

Nora and Santino stand by one another as they fight to defend their family’s good name. A family who once was defined endures emotional and physical pain as they accept the ups and downs that come along with the mafia life they have chosen.

Here is a sampling of the reviews:

Nora and Santino Taylini live in Palermo with their five children. Their lives are complicated by their “mafia” upbringing and their sense of commitment, not only to their biological family, but to their “mafia family.”

Typical overbearing parents, they struggle to control the destiny of their children. Sonny and Bobby are determined to choose their own wives, while Rebecca and Bella allow Nora to pick their lifelong mates. Spatterings of “mafia” life including the Dons, the bodyguards and the irate “mafia” wives add color to the story.

Shirley Roe, Allbooks Review

Taylini: A Family Saga is a fast paced drama that takes you right into a mafia family. In this well written story, the reader is taken into, not only the strong family ties, but also the struggles the family must endure.

Sherry Moore, Shadows of the Past.

Writing fiction is one of Marguerite’s favorite things to do, along with acting. Last year, she signed with Big Fish Talent located in Colorado. When she is not writing or acting, Ms. Ashton dives into her favorite interests including, yoga, weights, volleyball and ballet. During her down time she loves to watch a good NASCAR, baseball or football game.
“Listening to classical or jazz music, brings me to a new level. It opens up my mind.”

For updated reviews and current information on her screenwriting, feel free to visit her website at http://www.publishedauthors.net/margueriteashton